ok, this is gonna be long sorry but hopefully educational.

close your current utorrent, we're gonna do this in a test installation. create a new folder on your desktop and go to utorrent.com and download the latest utorrent.exe and save it in that folder. then go to the folder and create a new and empty text document and name it settings.dat. now open your hosts file in notepad and add 127.0.0.1 router.utorrent.com and 127.0.0.1 router.bittorrent.com. then double click on the utorrent.exe. say no you don't want it to be the default and use the selected settings. next to dht in the status bar it should say waiting to log in. go to the logger tab and right click and select dump dht buckets and it should show
[2009-11-30 12:07:36] Num buckets: 1. My DHT ID: F3xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (i've changed that for privacy thanks to a mods advice)
[2009-11-30 12:07:36] Bucket 0: 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 (replacement cache: 0)
[2009-11-30 12:07:36] Total peers: 0 (in replacement cache 0)
[2009-11-30 12:07:36] Outstanding add nodes: 0
[2009-11-30 12:07:36] Received: 0 requests (0 B), 0 replies (0 B), 0 invalid (0 B)
[2009-11-30 12:07:36] Sent: 2 requests (134 B), 0 replies (0 B)
see your dht id, that's the thing i told you it creates that looks like a torrent hash. and see that there are no peers, and you're still waiting to log in. thats because you've blocked the bootstrap servers and nothing can happen. now, right-click again and select dump dht tracked and it will show
[2009-11-30 12:08:04] List of tracked torrents:
[2009-11-30 12:08:04] Total peers: 0
[2009-11-30 12:08:04] Total torrents: 0
which should be pretty obvious
now exit utorrent and you will find a dht.dat file created in your directory. that's where utorrent stores all the ip addresses of the nodes it has been connected to between sessions. if you open it in notepad you can see at the end "nodes0" because obviously, we haven't connected to anyone yet.
now, go back to your hosts file and remove those two entries and start up again. this time it should connect to one or two nodes pretty quickly and if you go to logger and dump buckets and tracked you should see
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] Num buckets: 1. My DHT ID: F3xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] Bucket 0: 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 (replacement cache: 0)
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] 496892C88F34A9BFD24BAED1D2A850233AD27C08 67.215.242.139:6881 fail:0 seen:1 age:8s ver:UT:999
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] D7C23BF32D946DF36280D31ACDEA461E704F77F2 67.215.242.138:6881 fail:0 seen:1 age:2m 47s ver:UT:999
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] Total peers: 2 (in replacement cache 0)
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] Outstanding add nodes: 0
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] Received: 0 requests (0 B), 7 replies (1.25 kB), 0 invalid (0 B)
[2009-11-30 12:19:48] Sent: 40 requests (3.88 kB), 0 replies (0 B)
[2009-11-30 12:17:09] List of tracked torrents:
[2009-11-30 12:17:09] Total peers: 0
[2009-11-30 12:17:09] Total torrents: 0
so you see that it has connected to one or other or both of the bootstraps. and leave it for longer, maybe up to half an hour and it should connect to more nodes. once it has, dump buckets and tracked again and note that there are now lots of node ids and ip addresses, and that most of the node ids are similar to yours. but you're probably still not tracking any actualy torrents or peers (this is the part i was impatient with and though wasn't working). leave it running overnight or even a whole day like it took me and when you come back and dump traked it shoud show you something like
[2009-11-30 08:25:51] List of tracked torrents:
[2009-11-30 08:25:51] 0: F3AA3BCEDB39160860F0FD564C6326E0F9913FB5: 3 peers
[2009-11-30 08:25:51] 1: F3B7EF292FB02AE37010E7522F9E98D7ED3A76C3: 1 peers
[2009-11-30 08:25:51] 2: F3C0139B33BA371DF055D5A2C71DF24AF5965147: 1 peers
[2009-11-30 08:25:51] Total peers: 5
[2009-11-30 08:25:51] Total torrents: 3
and so you see that the torrents you are tracking are ones with torrent hashes similar to your node id. and also pretty obviously you are tracking torrents that you aren't running
now go to the pirate bay top 100 and pick one of the torrents (it doesn't really matter but we want things to go quickly) and open it. when the box with the list of files comes up click on advanced and delete all the trackers and uncheck peer exchange and local peer discovery and then start the torrent. it should start downloading. obviously it has got the peers from dht because theres nowhere else. go to the general tab and note the hash. unless there has been a ultra incredibly coincidence it will be nothing like your node id, then go back to the logger tab and dump tracked. that hash won't be there of course because you only track torrents like your node id. you've found the peers by finding the person with the node id like that torrent hash and they've been tracking the ips of the peers downloading that torrent
wwwwhhhhheeeeeewwwwww!!!!!! let me know how you get on...